After twenty-three years, still having no idea that he was struggling with his sexuality, I was so unhappy that I initiated a divorce. And it came, many times. The second reason is kink. Read more: His frequent business trips were usually followed by withdrawal and depression. Wait what?
They don't cheat because their spouses aren't blowing them often enough. Open your mind and dont close doors that "threaten" you as theres is no threat. Wake up and take off that blind fold.
We all are.